2018 In Memorandum
This year has been a whirlwind year, filled with excitement and also heartbreak. It was filled with great memories and sprinkled with sad ones, with moments of gratitude in between. This year had moments that took my breath away and also moments that had me in tears. I guess you can say, 2018 has been a well-rounded year for me.
The year started off with Aurora turning 4 and celebrating with our neighbors and we had a small little party, just the few of us and we had a nice time. Aurora has grown a lot in the past year and never ceases to amaze me with her charm, her kindness and her wit. Here we are, just a few days from her 5th birthday and I am wondering where the past year has gone! Aurora has been my sidekick every single day and we have been on many adventures together. She’ll be starting Kindergarten next fall and I plan to make the most of every day with her until then, while we still have homeschool time together.
We had our first ever outdoor flower bed this year and the highlight of it was finding the two fossils in May. To touch something of nature and to know that more than likely we were the first ever humans to touch them is such an incredible, awe inspiring feeling. To touch something that may be millions of years old is to feel a magic of Nature that words simply can do no justice for. Hopefully we will be able to find so done that can some light on our fossils as to how old they just may be. I’m looking to add the Audubon Society Fossil book to our personal library since it was a handy book to borrow from our local library.
This year brought Aurora and I on many walks and outside adventures where we live, which led up to us trying our hand at raising monarchs to release. It was an endeavor that we have never tried, and we singlehandedly were successful at raising and releasing 44 monarchs! We learned a lot in the field and plan to raise more monarchs this year, along with growing our own milkweed. We plan to make a monarch calendar for purchase to help us find our monarch venture and to raise awareness for their plight. Monarchs are on the list to vote on to be put on the endangered list in the coming year and I would like to collect more I go for that. We shall also be tagging the monarchs we raise next year to track their migration progress.
September was a bit of a rough month for me with a sinus infection for a few weeks followed by a broken toe. The broken toe was my own clumsy fault because I got excited for monarch photo of and tripped over our door jam (a big huge rock brought home on a past venture) and while I sustained a broken toe that I suspect didn’t heal correctly, I got an awesome picture that will always remind me of that broken toe mishap.
I applied for a job at our local redemption center back in July and in October I finally started my 1st job since 2013. It was a bit of an adjustment for both Aurora and I, being that we have been together every moment since her birth, but we have adjusted well. While the future of my job remains unclear with corporate things going in, I am happy to have a job to help the environment and help me pay bills.
December brought the biggest blessing of the year-the birth of my grandson, Tristin on the 27th. I never thought that I could fall in love more with a baby other than my own and it brings tears to my eyes that the circle of life in my family continues. I have become a Nana (at the tender age of 46!) and my eldest has become a mother. I wish her all the best in the world for even though being a mother is tough, the rewards outweigh those hardships.
Unfortunately, there were sad times this year, having to say farewell to a few people I knew. Death is always a sad part of life, whether you know the person well or not. There were a few people that I knew that passed this year, as well as a special Facebook friend of mine, that could write prose to make the sunset cry. Like friendships, death happens and occurs in different ways. I am saddened by a couple of my friends who died at their own hands from narcotics. That always seems to be the hardest deaths to handle, knowing that the person could still be alive but isn’t because of a bad choice. Life is hard enough to deal with without having to battle addiction on top of it.
William C. Ross
As I look back on 2018 I realized how blessed I am to have you all in my life, both virtual and *shocker* real life, to be traveling on this big blue marble we call Earth, across this sea we call life. I have enjoyed sharing my ventures with you as well as sharing your ventures. I am thankful for the friendships that have been forged from my social media. I toast my champagne to you all, with best wishes for 2019. I look forward to creating and sharing more memories with you all. From my house to yours, peace, love and light be with you all!
“There are good ships and wood ships,
and ships that sail the seas.
The best ships are friend ships
And may they always be!”